
I've always had just one dog. I first experienced the special qualities that dogs bring out in each other when they are part of a pack when I brought my dear Scully over to my boyfriend’s house to play with his dog, Bisou, when we first started dating. Scully had never been a big fan of other dogs. In Bisou though, she found a helpmate and companion in her last year. She found a renewed enthusiasm and energy for the simple things and in that I believe we had her with us for a several extra months. Bisou helped lead the way bringing her outside, making mealtime exciting, and walking, while she could, a family event.
After Scully passed away in January, we decided it would be best to wait until Spring to get a new dog. Getting another dog was never in question. I couldn’t be without a dog to call my own and Bisou was clearly depressed being left with only a pack of felines to hang with. But soon it was clear all of us couldn’t wait that long and then there was Olive.
The bond that these two have is something that heartens me everyday. While Bisou gently asserted herself as the alpha dog, she is something of a friend and big sis to Olive. She shows her the way … how to ask to go outside, how to eat ice cubes, how to listen to mom and dad, how to guard the house, how to chase the cats. Olive has brought out Bisou’s playful side. They wrestle gently each morning on Olive’s bed while they wait for us to get up, relish in playing tug with the rope toy, and chasing each other round the back yard or playing ball at the dog park. Bisou is entirely accommodating of Olive, just as she was with Scully. Olive is easily tipped off balance while playing tug, so Olive just lies on the dog bed or the floor and Bisou is happy to tow her around the house. Bisou lets Olive lay down across the entire back see on car trips and is carefully not to knock her over when then run around the dog park.
It is an example of community we all can learn from.
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